Thursday, May 30, 2013

Thursday Update May 30!

I know, I have not updated in a while....
this is Christina's blog... and who is updating?
Anyway, I am going to Annapolis tomorrow to see mom and dad
I will make a real report tomorrow or Saturday -- if I remember :-D

here are some cutie photos of mom
She is doing great!
Please continue to pray for her to be accepted into the Loudoun Rehab Center
where she can get better care and be close to ME! and I am moving my dad
here too.
I will feel so much better when they are close by and I can take so much of the burden off of my dad. We are worrying about him
Photos:
Mom, playing the piano! and singing with dad
this is still on mom's wall.... dated 5/9... great rehab, huh?
Two very happy dutch people
Mom enjoying her hot tea and she ate 3 cookies!
Happy Mom at a music program at the compound
taken with my iPhone and sent to my sister and brother mom thought this was so cool
Mom, eating in bed!!!! Pasta with sauce!

Saturday, May 25, 2013

May 25 update on Lena

We have been busy.
I am in the process of moving my mom and dad to Virginia
I submitted a request to have all of mom's medical records from this rehabilitation center in Maryland to one in Loudoun County Virginia where I live.
The process is slow... mostly because since I requested this information, suddenly some changes in mom's therapies have been discontinued -- for various reasons, which makes the decision for the new rehabilitation place a difficult one...
I will not go into the details here because it is not interesting nor pleasant.
I have secured an apartment for my dad, it is ground level so when mom recovers as much as she can, they can go in and out without stairs. The apartment is one mile from my house!
My dad and I are excited about this move.
We need to get mom transferred to this new rehabilitation hospital in Loudoun.
Here are some cute pictures from the past week:
mom sitting on the side of the bed with dad

Hey pretty lady!

going for a walk around the compound
eating bits of cookies

This is what 66 years of marriage looks like ♥♥


Monday, May 20, 2013

Dolley's daughter Sally came to visit

On Sunday:
Two very pretty ladies ♥
So bright and cheerful!

Sally's visit made mom very happy

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Joyce came to visit mom and dad on Saturday

It was a rainy drab day, but Joyce brought sunshine.
She pampered mom.

two beautiful ladies
 There was a little time without rain. a perfect time to go out for some fresh air.
When they returned, Joyce gave mom a shower and washed her hair.
It was a wonderful day to have Joyce

Saturday, May 18, 2013

Update on Lena

flowers from John and Nancy
Lena's youngest daughter reporting here again.
This week started out kind of bad. Mom got an infection and it took a long time for the medical staff to recognise it. Actually it was my sister Joyce and I that recogised that mom was sick.
Here are some photos of mom and all of us on Mother's Day
Joyce, Elizabeth, Jerome and mom at the tea party


me, ♥mom, and Rex
Returning on Tuesday, mom was feeling better but not what I expected. We did have a visit from the doctor. He ordered a different antibiotic.... every thing at this rehab center takes forever.


Mom was cold all day, but she was in good spirits, just chilly cold


chilly mom and yes, I had a moment of intense sleepiness
 Friday was a great day
Mom was feeling a lot better
The doctor changed the antibiotic and
mom was making a superb recovery


Friday was a sunny warm day
We took mom out for a walk and stayed mostly in the shade.
My mom and dad

 Mom had an appetite and could eat by herself!


I left mom and daddy feeling
quite good about this day.

Sunday, May 12, 2013

Mother's Day

Happy Mother's Day to my mom!














She is an inspiration to all of us.

Le Tour de Recovery!



















She knows physical therapy is tough


















there are some really hard days
















 
but she knows she is loved...
even though, she does not love the food at this place
You are the best mom and gramma
We are always going to be here for you

You are loved so much

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Finally an update on the meeting, the week-end and this week

Rosemary here:
So sorry for lack of updates.
All of us have been busy. Busy. Busy.

First, to fill you in on the meeting that took place last Friday afternoon at 2.
Mom was too drowsy to attend this meeting, so only dad and I went.
Every thing is going well. Mom has had medication adjustments so this has effected her state of mind, most outstanding change was discontinuing the Requip medicine that we (our family) thought was effecting her recovery as far as alertness.
The removal of that medicine was rough in the beginning, mom had tremors, fever, excessive sleepiness, extremely low blood pressures, dizziness and nausea. That has eased.
This discussion was pretty much stating by the staff of the Rehab Center that mom's treatments would continue.... however the physical therapy was not going well so the head PT decided that starting TODAY, Wednesday, in fact, mom would be getting a scaled down Physical Therapy program to just focus on strength, in her room, in her bed.
All of us agreed last Friday that this would be okay. I believe we felt mom needed to get stronger but have rest, and not focus so much on every effort to make her stand up.

The week-end. Mom enjoyed a wonderful day on Saturday.
Elizabeth, Jason Christina, Jerome and mom






Daddy, Elizabeth, Joyce and Mom
Andrei, dad, Elizabeth and Mom
Joyce and Andrei, Christina and Jason, and Elizabeth and Jerome came to visit with mom and dad. It was a great day. Mom had physical therapy with a new therapist. He had great success with mom and after doing several other exercises, he did indeed have mom stand up without complaint at the parallel bars. Twice.

Mom enjoyed a visit, with above family all day, Two excursions outside for wheel chair rides around the Rehab Center grounds, a lot of talking and happiness.
Sunday was a good day, more resting.
One thing to note, mom is still being tube fed over night. During the day, she feels nauseous and not hungry. The doctor in charge of mom said this was not a worry, as she was getting nourishment through the tube feeding, and this was just part of recovery, days of not being hungry or even having taste and smell aversion to food.

Monday I came to visit and mom was very sleepy in the morning.
She went to PT and had a good session, stood with a support on one side two times.
She was very sleepy. We were quite happy with her result today even so.














 In the afternoon, mom went to a chorus concert upstairs in the facility. This was the Heritage Harbor choir that she has been a member of and sang in for the past 20 years.







Mom enjoyed this concert, she was a little sleepy but became quite alert while listening and even sang a few of the songs.














After the concert was over, mom felt great. We decided to get our coats and go outside for fresh air. This was wonderful. Mom was happy.
Monday was a great day.

Tuesday was another great day, according to dad's email update:
Today there was a lot of rain around this area so no outside excursion for mom. I came in early today when mom had just received her breakfast. She ate her yoghurt & some oatmeal. But then the speech therapist arrived with a cup of tea for mom. I asked is there sugar in it? She went right back, then when she came back with the sugar added, and mom took a sip, her face lighted up. She drank that whole cup! I hope she gets that every morning from now on.
Physical Therapist Annabel showed up, with a woman, who introduced herself as a visiting therapist.
They then took mom to a contraption at the end of the therapy room, where they assist mom in standing. She has failed at that contraption every time before as it was discontinued when mom became dizzy. However not this time! Mom was sweaty, but I explained to Annabel that she was like that already in the room. While mom was assisted in standing, she had to move some cones between the 2 tp's. I thought she did great. Then they sat her on the NUSTEP bicycle and again I was proud of her. After PT mom went to her room to rest and I eventually went home for lunch.











When I returned to mom's room after going home for lunch, I was pleased to find that she had made a decent try of eating her lunch. I brought her a get-well card from friends, a couple from our church. It always make her very happy when she gets mail like that.
We then played some Youtube music (piece you suggested, Rosemary, in your email; she liked it very much & said that composer is a favorite.  
click here to enjoy --> [Boccherini, Fandango for Strings, guitar and castinets, yeah, it is fun])
Also, by about 4:30 the rain had stopped so she had a chance to enjoy some fresh air yet when we had a little stroll outside. By the time dinner was served, I was able to convince her to go to the dining room, where we sat at a table with another lady. Although mom ate only a couple of bites, she enjoyed this and said she would not have eaten anything if she had had the dinner in her room. At one point I asked for tea, and they brought her a cup but it was the thick stuff, from which she took a few sips but said she did not like it. If I see the speech therapist tomorrow, I have to ask her if mom is allowed to have that regular tea at other meals.
After the dinner we returned to the room and mom played for a little while on the key board. She also tried one of these puddings Rosemary had brought (vanilla pudding)
Today she was also weighed (I did not hear the result yet) and the doctor saw her (and said to me she was very alert and doing very well).
All in all a good day.

Saturday, May 4, 2013

May 3 ~ Friday afternoon


Going outside for a long walk and fresh air = instant happiness.

<--- sniffing a pansy













Mom said it cleared up her head!

One day we can have a picnic outside, wouldn't that be fun?




happy happy happy♥







I will have an update on the meeting we had today, later on.
It was a good meeting and mom is doing well, recovering slowly - making progress

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Happy Thursday

Rosemary again, reporting on Queen Lena.
I went to see mom and dad on Tuesday and mom seemed much more alert.
The doctor cut out two pills and cut back on one pill.
These were medicines that mom needed for her recovery in the hospital but we are past that now, so it is time to get off of some of these medicines and make some adjustments to ones she is taking





 We brought her to the dining room to eat lunch with the others.
She enjoyed it!
We could not go outside today because it was raining, but we had a nice time together indoors.



Here are a few shots of mom doing her arm exercises in bed.












 
She was doing a lot more than the therapist required... about 6 more and then the therapist said "okay you can stop now, Lena" haha
Dad was doing them with her!
My dad is such a great man. I am so proud of his courage
and dedication to his beloved Leni (Lena)









Mom, Daddy and I have a group meeting with the team of nurses and care givers tomorrow.
I will let you know the result of that as soon as possible.